The sexual preference that you are curious about or enjoy that is what society deems as not the norm.
Something you like to do with others yourself.
Its not VANILLA you say.
The good thing is you already know what you are turned by. This is what we call your erotic energy that is linked to your kink.
I can help you identify those kinks through a series of assessments.
The next part would be the challenging part.
Together we will identify your fears, hesitancy when trying to talk to your partner or partners about your kinks.
Been a kinkster a while, we can incorporate your day to day issues into your lifestyle through understanding yourself, your boundaries, and how others fit into this dynamic.
This particular thing turns you on! You even might need it present there to achieve an orgasm.
I got a checklist to help you figure out your fetishes.
Not sure how to begin. First, we will normalize your fetish. More so we are normalizing you and what you are into.
We will navigate through the stigmas associated to the fetishes.
I am sure there are some sort of anxiety or depression associate to the suppression of your fetish or even when the fetish is disclosed.
Once again, I want to help you normalize your fetish. Which means there would not be an emotional or physical reaction when you are communicating or engaging in your fetish.
You have all the love to give but seem to try to love and be with just one person.
And yet you still feel that something is missing.
Are you hesitant to bring come to terms and express the fact that your heart has room for others.
Together we will navigate the conflict you have with yourself and what society deems as what love is.
Got a primary and interested in with others?
Or are you already having fun time with others.
So we can navigate this through educating, understand, processing and communicating.
This involves a bunch of things we can work on. The most common things would be identify any anxiety, fearful thoughts or worries associated with the openness of your relationship (or the possibility of it).
More importantly let's make sure that your primary dynamic is solid and we can work through potential problems as they arise.
Ethical: you and other person being aware and staying true to your morals, boundaries, and values
Sounds simple but I know it is actually quite complex.
First let's navigate you/your ethics, your person/their ethics, the needs and wants in relationship(s).
Also while trying to cope with any past or previous relationship problems that might affect your ability to be honest and transparent in your relationship.
I am not talking about the ride that the park.
Well it would be like you and all the other people you would like to swing with (have sex with).
Couples swap, unicorn, a third
Most important thing is that the primary couple is a solid unit.
We will work on communication, understanding each other's likes, dislikes, and preferences. We will learn how to navigate normals feelings of jealous or invalidation in and out of the bedroom.